How our children grow is not determined by random chance. As always, parents play a crucial role in the growth of their children.
But how can parents be certain they are doing enough to raise their children well? Setting a good example and establishing rules within the home will help.
Instill the importance of faith in your children
Faith in God is a virtue, and we would all benefit from taking that sentiment to heart. Your child may learn about the fundamentals of religion in the classroom setting, thanks to their teacher. However, they may not understand the importance of having a personal relationship with God so easily.
As a parent, it is your duty to teach your child about God’s love. Teach them about the salvation only God provides and the unconditional love He shows us.
Believing in God is not something that can be easily taught. It is a commitment we must consciously make every day. To instill the importance of making that commitment to your child, ensure that your actions exemplify your unwavering faith in the Lord.
Establish a healthy parent-child relationship
Once your child reaches a certain age, you will have an important decision to make as a parent. Do you carry on your relationship with your child as a parental/authority figure, or do you start to become their friend?
Becoming your teenage child’s friend could be the key to getting close to them. It may be the best way to maintain a connection with your child through the turbulent teenage years.
Developing a friendly relationship with your child is certainly fine, but you need to be careful of maintaining your role. Ultimately, your role as a parent must take precedence as you consider your relationship with your child.
Set boundaries and dole out discipline whenever it is warranted. Be someone your child can laugh with, but don’t allow them to sweet talk you into softening your boundaries.
Don’t worry about being the bad guy who says no. Now and then, that’s exactly what children need their parents to be.
Parents must become the last line of defense against harmful media
Are you worried about the amount of screen time your child gets daily? You are not alone in that regard.
The Pew Research Center notes that 71 percent of parents with children under 12 are at least somewhat concerned about the amount of screen time their kids get. Those concerns are valid as well.
All kinds of inappropriate shows can be found on TV and the internet. If your child spends plenty of time on their smartphone or tablet, the chances of them being exposed to those inappropriate shows greatly increase.
It is your duty as a parent to monitor what your child watches. Do not let them roam the online world freely because dangers are lurking in its shadowy corners. Take an interest in your child’s viewing habits so you can be certain that they are protected from harmful forms of media.
Children will always look to their parents for guidance. When they do, ensure you are ready to direct them to the right path.
